You’ve changed a lot, but you’ve got yourself more or less figured out now, right? You and everyone else.
“Know thyself is not just silly advice: its actively dangerous” by Bence Nanay - https://aeon.co/ideas/know-thyself-is-not-just-silly-advice-its-actively-dangerous
The End of History Illusion (Quoidbach et al, 2013) - https://web.archive.org/web/20130113214951/http://www.wjh.harvard.edu/~dtg/Quoidbach%20et%20al%202013.pdf
“The right way to be introspective (yes, theres a wrong way)” by Tasha Eurich - https://ideas.ted.com/the-right-way-to-be-introspective-yes-theres-a-wrong-way/
The Relevance of Reflection: An Empirical Examination of the Role of Reflection in Ethic of Caring, Leadership, and Psychological Well-Being (Park and Millora, 2012) - https://muse.jhu.edu/article/469343/pdf
Evaluating self-reflection and insight as self-conscious traits (Silvia and Phillips, 2010) - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886910004782